anyways, so j and i met today to talk about the second chapter which is on a woman named Lilias Trotter. we talked about what she gave up for the gospel and such. later on as i was doing my qt i was reminded that this is not my home and it made me think of how excited i am for heaven and how much i want to be there but at the same time how there are people i want to share the gospel with and how there are things that i want to experience before i die. that led me to think about Lilias Trotter again and how she gave up everything for the gospel. everything. not just somethings or some parts of her life but everything. yes i know i am being repetitive but let that sink in. everything.
i began to ask myself, am i willing to give up everything for the gospel? really? honestly? am i willing to never get married? am i willing to never have starbucks again (as i sit here in a starbucks - thanks to being treated by my friend r)? to risk my dreams? my reputation? sure it's easy for me as a missionary to give the "sunday school answer" and say yes, but if i'm truly honest with myself i'm not. as terrified as i am to be married, i don't want to be single for the rest of my life. and let's be honest, i do want to know what it's like to have sex (can a missionary even say that?!?!). i'm not willing to risk my dreams or my reputation either.
while i was contemplating these things, it bothered me deeply to know where my heart really is - that i want these things more than i want what Christ wants. and that's scary. it's scary to know that you are at a point in your life where you are saying that Christ is number one in your life but in reality your actions and your daily decisions are showing that he isn't. it's times like these where i just want to die and go to heaven cause i am so tired of fighting the flesh and tired of not realizing how selfish i am until i sit and ask myself the hard questions.
in reality i'm a selfish, selfish person who only gives when it doesn't inconvenience me. i seem so kind and generous but really, it's only to benefit me and my wants and my desires (or it's a situation where someone has asked and i just can't say no - but that's a topic for another time). how unChrist-like is that? umm very. i need a heart makeover. and only from the One who can change my heart.